Whoa guys settle!
I think everyone here, including Daniel5, has a valid point.
I can understand where the OP is coming from, having a father who likes to pick fun at my choices, but I can also see where Daniel5 is coming from.
I think half of our problem is coming from all the negativity that we (and I am including myself in this one) use to convey our message. Yes, we do need to get the message across about the cruelty, but we can do it in a way that ends in a positive.
It's about awareness and action, focus on the successes we've already had, admit the defeats (we're all going to come across some people that just can not be swayed) and work on the ones that are willing to listen.
Before I went veg I will admit having some contact with animal activist groups I did think they were way too out there and immediately my guard went up and I refused to listen. It was only that I cam across this website that I actually sat back and did think about what I was doing, eating meat, and the consequences that came with it that really made stop and think about it.
Give Daniel5 credit. He is here and reading what we have to say, so yeah he may not be veg but he is curious about it and that's a start