May I ask on something that I had on my post- would you have a grudge against a family member who eats meat for asking for an organ?
all of my family are vegan

Well that's good for you, but that's quite rare. Most people on here know and love someone else who is a meat eater, and would be so damn heart broken if they were knocked off of a donation because they choose to eat meat. What about the lives you are ruining then? You must see that its not only the person who needs an organ, its their surrounding loves too.
If we could choose to only give organs to veg*ns, then that would allow people to only give organs to straight people, or white people, or young people... because they don't agree with the lifestyle.
I know I moved away from the question then of "would you donate" but I know the whole "if we could only donate to.." is being thought about. We can not catergorise people in that way, enough people are dying on the waiting list as it is.
I think there's a limit to everything and that's my limit. Here your only thinking about changing one person's food choices, why not do something else when you die that would help change others? When Kim Kearney passed earlier this year, her daughter set up a fund for Oscar's Law and Save Our Strays- instead of sending flowers, we put money in the fund.
That certainly raises awareness on a bigger scale, and thats what I'm going to do when I pass. I will save lives and that includes humans, but I will be raising awareness of animal cruelty when Im long gone too.