SO many people tried getting through to me by getting mad, and doing the whole 'tough love' thing. I believe it gets through to people who just get educated, and you talk to them like their not a bad person. When someone treats you with respect and dignity is when youll listen. If you tell them everything theyre doing is wrong, and attack them at every angle.. They just won't listen.. You honestly can't believe people yelling and having goe's gets through to people- because it doesn't. I had many people try with me, and it just took someone to sit me down for an hour and have an educational discussion and talk sense.. And them not get mad at me for the things i did, or what i ate. If you attack people for what they eat, they just won't listen.. This is the last im going to say of it.. Because i feel like it's you and your girlfriend sitting at a computer laughing and being stupid so I really just can't be bothered lol.. I understand being hard headed, and i understand your clearly one of those people- who won't change their opinions, wrong or right.. Or even take in others opinions, or respect their opinions, because.. In your mind your CLEARLY right.. To many people are to closed minded, and to stuck in their ways to respect others opinions.. So just chill and respect how other people live and what they do..
I got to being a raw vegan because I considered other people's opinion's. I researched, found out the truth, put my own comfort aside and did the right thing. I've been vegetarian before, felt bad for being a hypocrite and changed accordingly. You will never sway anyone advocating something that is so clearly contradictory. And when someone holds a belief like that, it's very hard to respect it. We may be more outspoken than some, but I bet those people who were tough on you for what you ate got through to you even a little bit. Sitting someone down and telling them they're doing a good job when they're not is just stupid, and we, as animal rights advocates should be past that. Society as a collective has been told they're doing the right thing. Media, and all it's glorified falsehoods tells them they're doing the right thing. Their parents, peers and friends tell them they're doing the right thing. Only the person who says otherwise is going to make them reflect upon their beliefs, and only upon reflection will they know whether they are right in believing what they believe. Only then. Tough love works. If there's one thing I've learnt from my psychological studies it's that people look for confirmation that they're doing the right thing, even if they're wrong. It's normal to look for gratification, so we can feel better about ourselves and where we are at, but if we get to comfortable, we become stagnant. I wouldn't wish that upon anyone, so in turn I don't give gratification unduly.