Take a crash course on reading comprehension. You missed my point and went straight for the part where you get to hop into the maturity debate. I can't be bothered arguing with you because I've read the crap you spout around these traps, and it's pretty obvious you're oblivious to reasoning.
The other side to this debate is my other brother who has three little daughters. He has to drive 2 hours to get here, take the kids somewhere for tea because they're sure to turn their noses up at raw fish and miso soup, then go to tea and face the problem of keeping the kids entertained while everyone else gets totalled on warm sake. I merely argue that this whole debacle wasn't thought through from the very beginning.
On a side note, I called the venue after they opened today and enquired about the vegan menu. Their solution is to serve up the items on the set banquet which don't contain meat or animal products, which are a handful of steamed edamame, a bowl of spinach and the assorted tempura vegetables, and skip the other stuff... and they still charge you $40!