I have to disagree! I think when u post up a forum and that's all u say then expect the worst to come back because quite frankly I didn't respond as I was just like "why the heck would u write something like that that on here?" - I would have thought with genuine fair enough reasons like she does have that u would write why u had said that because it did come across rude so clearly like someone mentioned it's a lot to do with the fact it's like texting on here and things get misunderstood a lot and that's why sometimes we need to add detail.
As for the allycat thing, what so NONE of u have ever done or said anything in "the moment" and then later thought oh I wish I'd done/said this instead...???? Not to mention she IS only young and I'm nearly 30 and still learning. Rather than having a go at her, education would be more beneficial , wouldn't want to scare a smart young confident girl out of being herself. As then there are those like me that r too scare to say a word.
Each to their own but I like it when we are all nice to each other
and although NK u had an understandable reason please try to understand what the others replying must have thought when they read that... And then u also without explaining first just went nuts at them. I personally would have said ohhhh wait I'm heaps sorry I didn't explain properly - the reason I said that was ......,
But I guess we are all different and have different opinions right..
Love to all xoxo
