one of my close friends has been hanging around a guy who used to work in a slaughter house he is also a qualified butcher. They stopped hanging out for a week (he's abusive) though started seeing each other again last night.
I have lost alot of respect for her because of this and have lost the desire to hang around her, even today i made up a story not to see her so i didn't have to be around her. I figure he's going to come into my life at some point (she even brought him to my house but he waited outside) and i don't rely want to be a part of his. im scared their going to start dating and that would pretty much kill the friendship.
What would you guys do in that situation? im confused.
I would let her know how you feel.... you never know - your relationship may be more important.
I know it can be hard when you don't get along with your friends other half (I did it for some time) but all you can do is talk to them about it and go from there.
I know it must be hard, but I guess she has to decide what is right. She is omni right? If you hang in there, and stick by her, you may have more influence on her than if you don't *hugs*
