Well i dumped my bf recently who i was with for 3 months. Its now been 2 weeks and im still being harrassed. He is making fake profiles in my name, making profiles on dating website in my name, telling everyone im a horrible user with drug problems and a prostitue. He sends me about 10-15 sms's a day asking who iam with and who im now dating!!! it just keeps getting worse and im really getting sick of it. I really dont want to go throu the drama of a court order but im starting to get really upset. He is even stalking me on facebook!!!!!! I had to cull about 40 of my friends (sorry if i deleted u) and now i just dont know what to do....i cry myself to sleep most nights and it really herts. I feel like giving up on everything and everyone! Im always looking over my shoulder and i just dont know what to do.
Well i dumped my bf recently who i was with for 3 months. Its now been 2 weeks and im still being harrassed. He is making fake profiles in my name, making profiles on dating website in my name, telling everyone im a horrible user with drug problems and a prostitue. He sends me about 10-15 sms's a day asking who iam with and who im now dating!!! it just keeps getting worse and im really getting sick of it. I really dont want to go throu the drama of a court order but im starting to get really upset. He is even stalking me on facebook!!!!!! I had to cull about 40 of my friends (sorry if i deleted u) and now i just dont know what to do....i cry myself to sleep most nights and it really herts. I feel like giving up on everything and everyone! Im always looking over my shoulder and i just dont know what to do.
Tell him to leave you alone, if worse comes to worse you can get a restraining order out against him, what he is doing is harrasment, and if it is making you feel uncomfortable, then take action.
I'd probably just stay off facebook/social networking for a few weeks, and change numbers if it were me.
Wow dude, that's absolute crap you're having to deal with there. That'd drive anyone mad. I'm not sure what you're supposed to do in circumstances such as yours, but I imagine that if I were in your shoes I'd probably consult the police and/or, as painful as it might be, take legal action.
I would stay clear of face book for a little while and as hard as it is, don't reply to any of his texts... Seriously don't
things may take time but it will get better so stay strong
Personally I would call the police and get them to record a complaint. There isn't much more they can do I don't think. They can't really do anything unless you get hurt or (God forbid) killed. BUT you can request a court ordered restraining order. I would be doing that if it continues.
The fake internet stuff sounds as though it could be illegal. I would think a lawyer would be best to talk about such stuff. I could ask my friend about it all if you like. He's a lawyer.
Keep records of what he has said to you. If he is sending you abusive emails/texts, etc keep a copy, that way if you do consider a restraining order then it will be easier.
I had a relative harassing me and other family members, though I made the mistake of deleting all the emails, which made it tougher for police to swallow. They already don't give a damn about internet harassment, it means nothing to them compared to homicide, etc.
EDIT: BTW, restraining orders are a difficult thing when you're being harassed through/with technology
