I know have to decipher all these big words you write because although i know what they mean, english is also good haha..
>.< I'm not deliberately using big words. This is just how I speak.
I mean, i know it makes sense. Maybe because im 18 and these girls are so much younger. I know what you mean that sneaking into a room is creepy.. And about trespassing and whatever.. I get that.. But my boyfriend did that, while i was at work covered my bedroom in roses and rose petals and what not.. That's not creepy i dont think, even though we don't live together, im fine with that..
Yeah, but he's your boyfriend. When this happened in the book, Edward and Bella had encountered each other once, maybe twice. They hadn't exchanged more than two words.
I know there's a line.. And i think people look way to far into it.. If kids are that easily manipulated into thinking different things, no one can help that.. people are gonna write about what they want.. what about tv shows about murder, and murderers getting off jail time and what not- i think a bigger issue is that kids are being taught they can stab people, rape, kill, hurt people and get off scot free because other people are- and it happens on tv.. So i think this issue takes the back seat on so many other issues
I think teaching young girls that they should be passive, weak and unable to function without a man is pretty serious. I think teaching young girls that abusing relationships are okay and romantic is a pretty serious issue.
Yes, I also disagree with the desensitising of violence on television and such, however I do not believe that idealizing psychologically unsound relationships is something that should be accepted simply because it is less terrible than encouraging physical violence.
Yeah, people are going to write about what they want, but that doesn't mean they should be published. These girls ARE young, and they ARE easily manipulated. Until they're old enough to make their own intelligent decisions and to read texts like these without being affected by them in such a way, though, they shouldn't have these ideas thrown at them in the form of soft-porn "romance" novels specifically targeting them as an audience.